EMOTIONAL DISTURBANCE - dr.habibullah

A

TALK

on

HOW EMOTIONAL DISTURBANCE

affects the work-style of executives

in their

DAY-TO-DAY LIFE

DR.HABIBULLAH

an expert in the field of

ADOLESCENT MEDICINE AND PSYCHOLOGY

EMOTIONAL DISTURBANCE

Somone disturbs you, you become angry.

You react to it without any reason.

If you are alert, you don't react to it but watch it.

If you understand the insult, you don't get angry.

You simply remain as a witness to the insult or to the disturbance.

You need not do anything.

You need not react to the situation unnecssarily.

You can remain silently undisturbed,

you can remain cool and collected.

In this state, the other person has no power to disturb you.

Be authentic in your emotions.

If you hide your real emotions,

it may be exhibited in a different way.

You can not hide your real emotions,

but you can understand your bad emotions.

If anger comes, experience the anger and understand what it is.

Be burnt by your own anger.

Let it make emotional scars on your body and mind.

Your very experience of the anger tells you that

your anger is foolish.

The minute you understand the stupidity of your anger,

the very moment the anger disappears from your system.

There won't be any trace of repression inside the mind.

The system is cleared off from the deadly emotional poisons.

If you hurt others you too will be hurt by others.

Every action is to be paid for in  this life.

Even to get happiness, you need to pay in unhappiness.

One needs to go through pain and suffering,

in order to get rid of the same pain and suffering.

You cannot avoid pain.

If you avoid pain, you are avoiding pleasure also.

Always remember the fundamental laws of life

Always accept your emotions as it is and

accept yourself as you are.

Don't try to laugh when your heart cries.

Don't smile when your eyes shed tears.

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DR.HABIBULLAH

dr.habibullah

PHYSICIAN - PSYCHOLOGIST - MANAGEMENT CONSULTANT

an interesting work-shop for senior exectives on

EMOTIONAL MANAGEMAENT

EXECUTIVES AND HAPPINESS - dr.habibullah

A

TALK

on

EXECUTIVES  AND HAPPINESS

DR.HABIBULLAH

physician - psychologist - management consultant

A happy mind is a flowing mind.

A happy mind is an open mind.

A happy mind is more delicate.

If a person is happy, he must have chosen a different value in life.

If a person has chosen wrong values,

he may suffer in unhappiness.

No one can bring unhappines to some one.

No one can make another person suffer.

In unhappiness the mind gets strengthened.

In a happy mood the mind simply diappears.

Happiness is possible only when you have understood

the phenomenon of

how you create your own unhappiness.

In marriage the husband and wife are

comfortably miserable

conveniently miserable

all the time, totally miserable and unhappy.

They are not happy either.

They know what makes life secure,comfortable and safe.

All these things never bring happiness in life.

Happiness comes only when you are true to your self.

You feel unhappy because you have been hurting people and

making them unhappy in their life.

Any moment of great unhappiness always brings

a great moment of sadness in life.

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DR.HABIBULLAH

DR.HABIBULLAH

an expert

in the field of

ADOLESCENT MEDICINE

speaks to an audience of senior management executives

KNOWLEDGE SKILL AND TALENT - dr.habibullah

A

TALK

on

KNOWLEDGE

SKILL

AND

TALENT

by

DR.HABIBULLAH

KNOWLEDGE

Knowledge is nothing but collection of some information.

A student attend school or college to collect or gather some knowledge,

to become more knowledgeable in a particular subject.

He just want to accumulate certain knowledge,

in order that he can become a specialist in a particular field.

He wants to become more intellectual.

By gathering the essential knowledge,

he wants to become a scholar, a doctor or an engineer.

Knowledge in a particular field may bring him,

the much needed good job or career.

An inner transformation is not possible with this bookish knowledge.

To succeed in this world a bit of knowledge or education,

in the form of some degrees are enough.

SKILL

Skill is not the central core in any form of art.

It is very easy to learn certain skills.

With good skills anyone can become a technician.

Most of the people in the working environment are unskilled workers.

With little training they are fit into any job.

Skills make them perfect technicians.

TALENT

Talent is not a learned skill.

Talent is not a technique.

It is too difficult to learn a talent.

Talent is something that is happening in your being.

Talent is an innate gift of God.

The person of knowledge is a closed one.

The skilled person is a limited person.

It is too difficult to become a poet by learning the art of poetry.

Poetry is not a craft, skill, knowledge or technique.

When you are in ecstasy or in a happy mood poetry flows.

Dance is nothing but poetry in action.

Painting is nothing but poetry in colours and shades.

Talent is a gift; talent cannot be manufactured.

Talent is not man-made; talent is god-made.

Talent can neither be learned nor be created.

When it happens, it is not necessary to do anything; just accept it.

Go totally into it.

When talent happens through you, it is not only real but divine.

The minute you think that you are the originator of it,

the 'flow' may get stopped.

Talent happens without any effort.

When something great happens through you,

you are neither the doer nor the perfomer or the knower.

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DR.HABIBULLAH

AN

ENLIGHTENED

TALK

on

KNOWLEDGE  SKILL TALENT  TACTICS

and

TECHNIQUES

This talk is given to a group of

SENIOR EXECUTIVES

of

CLIPSAL CORPORATION

UAE

SECRETS OF HAPPINESS - dr.habibullah

A TALK - SHOW

by

DR.HABIBULLAH

SECRETS OF HAPPINESS

Happiness is a creation, so is unhappiness.

Beauty is a creation, so is ugliness.

you get only that, which you manufacture.

you get only that, which you desire or aspire.

If other peron dislikes you that means that,

you must be rejecting them in your heart.

The other person simply reacts to your inner impulse.

The other person simply functions like a mirror.

If want to be liked by others, then stop rejecting others.

The secrets of happiness is to say 'yes' to life.

Start loving people, especially your friends and colleagues.

Say 'yes' and enjoy the happiness that 'yes' brings to your life.

"yes" means acceepting life as it is.

You feel an inner calm and peace, the minute you accept your life.

That brings the needed blissful and happy state which you expect.

If you want to enjoy this happy state,

don't tell it in words, just be happy.

Just create your own happy atmosphere.

Other people will understand your happiness.

Language is a way of saying things, which

you really don't want to say.

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DR.HABIBULLAH

A

SERIES OF TALKS

GIVEN BY

DR.HABIBULLAH

TO

AN ELITE AUDIENCE OF

SENIOR EXECUTIVES

ANGER AND THE DANGER - dr.habibullah

DR.HABIBULLAH

talks on

ANGER MANAGEMENT

THE PHYSIOLOGY OF ANGER

Fear can turn into anger any moment.

Anger and fear are not far away.

They are very near, just like two surfaces of the same coin.

Anger can become fear and fear can become anger.

Whenever there is a situation in which a man shows anger,

the same is the situation that triggers fear also.

If the boss is more powerful than the subordinate,

the subordinate cannot show anger towards his boss.

He is conditioned to show his fear only.

He feels and shows the emotion of his fear on his face.

At the same time the boss shows the emotion of anger on his face.

Even when the boss looks very weak and fragile in body-image,

it is not possible for him to show his weakness on his face

in the form of fear.

Hence his fear is transformed into authentic anger.

Whenever there is a dangerous situation there are two possibilities.

FIGHT or FLIGHT

Fight means anger

flight means fear.

In situation like this

FEAR can turn into ANGER

ANGER can turn into FEAR

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DR.HABIBULLAH

A TALK-SHOW ON ANGER MANAGEMENT

TO A SELECT GROUP OF SENIOR EXECUTIVES

'the concealed inner fear is expressed in the form of anger'

dr.habibullah

explains



EXECUTIVES AND INTELLIGENCE - dr.habibullah

TALK - SHOW

by

DR.HABIBULLAH

THE IMPORTANCE OF INTELLIGENCE

IN THE WORK ENVIRONMENT

Knowledge is not intelligence.

Intellectuality is a substitute for intelligence.

A man of intelligence is not an intellectual.

The man who pretends to be intelligent is always

a knowledgeable person or an intellectual.

Knowledge is always uncreative,

that cannot create anyhing.

Knowledge is helpful in the business world,

because education is a good survival device.

But education is totally uncreative.

All that is created in this world is not created by great knowledge,

but intelligence.

In schools and colleges, the student's intellect is trained.

He knows, how to interpret, calculate, discuss, argue, debate

memorise, write and pass the examination.

In general, the more intellectual the man becomes,

the less intelligent he turns out to be.

An intelligent person always accepts the polarity,

because intelligence honours and accepts everything.

Intelligence is exhibited not in knowledge,

but in the eyes of the holder- a sort of radiance,light or aura.

Many top executives are great intellectuals,

but behave very unintelligently.

Intelligence means a kind of awareness, an  enlightened presence.

An intelligent person listen attentively, just like a child,

without any ideas, thoughts and biases in his mind.

When a person listen totally, attentively, in that very listening,

he knows what is truth, what is not.

The capacity to learn means intelligence.

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AN EMOTIONAL MANAGEMENT PROGRAMME FOR

SENIOR EXECUTIVES



WORKING WITH BAD EMOTIONS

A TALK - SHOW BY

DR.HABIBULLAH



WORKING WITH EMOTIONS

Emotions are like buffers.

They protect man against reality.

Emotions protect man's lies, deceptions, dreams and projections.

Man always lives through lies because he cannot live by truth.

There are people who work with hostile emotions.

They work with their anger, hostility, hatred and aggressiveness.

They bring their bad emotions to their work environment.

This sort of people are always angry about everything.

The hostile worker lives in his neurotic world.

His anger is not particularly directed towards something,

he is simply angry about everything.

He has no object of anger.

Everything and everyone, wife, children seem to be inimical to him.

Not only persons but things too look inimical towards him.

His basic attitude is negative.

There are also people who are always smiling, false and pseudo,

always deceptive, never true to themselves.

These people always wear a face mask.

They never reveal their real face to the external world.

These are the people who are very much repressed.

They go on repressing their anger, hostility and violence.

There is no harm in trusting an angry person.

It is too difficult to trust a person who is always smiling.

The smile is not a thing that comes from the heart.

It is a painted thing, covered, polished and for sale.

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